Coping with change

My biggest change that has happened in the last year or year and a half would be the death or my mother. It has actually been closer to two years know. Yes it was very difficult, because the year before that I had lost my baby boy. He had died during heart surgery. The only real problems that I have had has been death. In 2004 I lost my son, one year and three months later my mom dies. Then a year and four months later my moms mom dies, then six months later my dads mom dies. So as you can see I have had my share of lost ones, and I am still here. I just keep going cause noone else will do it for me. I really don't let people see it if something is wrong. On a lighter note I really don't have a problem with the jump from high school to college it has actually been a little easier. I have always been one of those people that if something is wrong I fix it. Weather that be lifestyle or work and or even education. I never wanted to settle for second place. I haven't experienced any emotional or physical problems since starting school. Wait I take that back it has given me a little more stress. Thats common and with work and a family. Its hard to make sure that everyone and everythings gets the right amount of time but I seem to be doing okay. Change is good it gets people on there toes and gives people a new prespective on different things that maybe you didn't have before. I try to keep switching things up so I don't get complacive, and try to stay out of that rout feeling. Form where I was five years ago to know is a complete three hundred and sixty degree turn. It is one thing to say you want to change it is another to actually do it. It is unbeliveable to see the transformation that some people and even myself actually go through to get what they want or change. It just as a may be one of the most singlely difficult things to do in someones life , change. I recomend that if you have any thoughts of change don't wait any long do it.
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